Failure to analyze why things don’t work and you will continue to create problems for yourself and your partners. Invest in either private lessons, private study, or instructional videos. However, repeating the same thing over and over again expecting different results is not the smartest thing to do. Ask, analyze, question, investigate, try, refine, clarify constantly

The Female Lead
This post isn’t about the benefits of learning to lead for the woman that dances, of which there are many. No. Nor is it about the hyper awareness of all the things you do not want to do as a Follower, which is going to happen by default. Nor is this post about the supposition that women of a certain age swap shoes and end up leading because no one wants to lead them anymore. Not. Nor is it about the fact the simple fact that some women do enjoy leading quite a bit and are actually (contrary to what you might believe) pretty good at it. No. Today’s Tango Thought is all about Women that WANT to Lead! (Just as a side note, most of this stuff also applies to the male lead too, you need the reminders).